Tell us about yourself.
I am originally from Louisiana and grew up as a military brat, moving frequently until I turned 18. I have been involved in football since a young age, starting around 5 or 6 years old. Football has been an integral part of my life every day since childhood. I pursued a career in professional football for over 20 years before transitioning into coaching high school football in 2000. I married my wife, Tamara, in 2005 and we have a 6-year-old son who means the world to us.
What principles do you bring to parenting from your role as coach?
As a parent and coach, I believe in the importance of showing love to my young men while also being firm, consistent, and unwavering in my principles. My guiding principles include considering others when making decisions, working hard in everything we do from small tasks to big endeavors, embracing mistakes as opportunities for growth, handling challenges with humility and learning mindset, and maintaining perspective on both successes and setbacks. I am always available for my players at any time of day.
What principles do you bring to coaching from your role as a dad?
I emphasize the importance of giving our best effort in everything we do. As a father, I instill in my son the value of commitment and striving to excel in any task, whether it’s taking out the trash or cleaning the living room. I teach him to stay dedicated and follow through on his word, even if it means going above and beyond to fulfill promises. These principles are not only integral to my relationship with my son but also guide my approach as a coach for my football team.
What advice do you have for other parents?
Well, you see, the key to being a successful parent is all about consistency and discipline. You have to hold your children to high standards and make sure they understand the importance of hard work and commitment in everything they do. Set clear expectations, follow through on consequences, and always strive for excellence. Remember, it’s not just about what you say but how you act and lead by example. So my advice to other parents is simple: be relentless in your pursuit of molding your children into responsible, respectful individuals who are prepared for any challenge that comes their way.
As a parent and coach, what do you want others to know that you have learned from your unique perspective?
I have had the opportunity to work with individuals who were blacklisted by the NFL and are striving to address their shortcomings. In guiding them towards a comeback, I emphasize accountability, understanding that one’s worth is tied to their usefulness. Through a structured and disciplined approach, I enforce values such as punctuality, attention to detail, accountability, and serviceability. While initially firm, these standards help players recognize the benefits of pushing through challenges and instill in them the importance of character development for success both on and off the field.